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SirAffection — Professional Dominant / BDSM Provider (Melbourne)

Owner-style Master • Protocol & Training • Ethical Sadist • Structured Power Exchange

Have you ever been with a Dominant who doesn’t “wing it”?

I’m SirAffection — Melbourne-based, professional BDSM provider with 8+ years in the community. My style is calm, controlled, and structured: negotiation first, clean boundaries, and a deliberate escalation that feels contained rather than chaotic.

This is a BDSM: power exchange, ritual, restraint, impact, psychological dominance, training, and roleplay — with clear consent frameworks, safewords, and aftercare. If you want intensity with competence (not reckless improvisation), you’ll feel at home here.

I specialise in dynamics where you feel owned, trained, corrected, and managed — with the kind of protocol that makes your nervous system exhale.

 

These are the core experiences available at standard rates (extras below):

PSE (Provider-led Scene Experience) — I lead; you surrender. Protocol & Ritual — posture, eye contact, kneeling, permission systems, rules. Training Sessions — obedience conditioning, service tasks, accountability, progression. Bondage & Restraints — cuffs, ties, control positions, immobilisation (negotiated). Impact Play — from light to heavy as negotiated and safe (implements vary). Sensation Play — temperature, texture, controlled overwhelm (negotiated). Consensual Degradation / Humiliation — language negotiated; psychological precision. Roleplay (non-sexual) — authority, correction, capture/control themes by script. Fear Play (light/moderate) — presence, intimidation, anticipation (consent-first). Aftercare — included, taken seriously, and tailored to you. Owner / Master: measured control, possession energy, firm structure Trainer: progression plans, rules, reinforcement, “earned privileges” Sadist (ethical): impact + sensation with skill, pacing, and care Protocol Master: ritual, obedience, and psychological containment Extended training plan (weekly structure + tasks between sessions) Collaring ritual / protocol installation (consensual, symbolic) High-protocol scenes (strict rules, silence, inspection, formal ritual) Marks policy requests (negotiated: where/visibility/duration) Couples (power exchange for one or both partners — negotiated) Travel / fly-me-to-you (quoted) Group scenarios (quoted; strict screening and safety controls)

Some kinks carry higher risk and require extra screening, explicit boundaries, and often a “not today” decision if anything feels off:

Breath play (often declined; if considered, strict limits only) CNC themes (scripted, negotiated, opt-in/opt-out, safeword-forward) Intense psychological play (requires experience + strong aftercare plan)

If you’re hoping for “no rules, no limits, surprise me” — that’s not my practice. I run clean, controlled scenes.

Message using this template (copy/paste and fill in the blanks). Clear enquiries get priority:

Hi SirAffection, I found you on (platform). My name is (name), I’m (age). I’d like to book a (Standard / Training / Protocol) session for (x hours) on (date) at (time) in (incall/outcall area, if relevant).

My experience level is (beginner / experienced). My hard limits are (limits). I’m looking for (2–4 interests, e.g., Bondage + protocol + impact).

Preferred aftercare: (quiet / verbal reassurance / water + decompression / etc.).

Screening: I may request basic screening for safety and discretion (and I’ll be equally respectful of yours).

 

A deposit may be required to confirm your booking (non-refundable within a defined window). This protects time, preparation, and scheduling.

(Insert your exact deposit % + cancellation window here.)

 

[2026-01-11 14:22 GMT+10] Master, here’s a Services section that clearly welcomes male and female clients while signalling your sexuality (straight / femme-focused) without sounding messy. This is written for non-sexual BDSM provider context (pro-Dom style). .⚖️

 

I’m straight and primarily femme-focused in my personal attraction. Professionally, I provide non-sexual BDSM sessions to clients of any gender, built around power exchange, protocol, training, restraint, and impact — with clear consent, safewords, and aftercare.

 

PSE (Provider-Led Scene Experience) — structured, guided dominance Protocol & Ritual — kneeling, posture, eye contact, permissions, rules Obedience Training — conditioning, tasks, reinforcement, accountability Bondage & Restraints — cuffs/ties, control positions, immobilisation (negotiated) Impact Play — spanking, flogger, strap, paddle (level negotiated) Sensation Play — temperature/texture, controlled overwhelm (negotiated) Consensual Degradation / Humiliation — language negotiated, psychologically precise Roleplay (non-sexual) — authority, discipline, correction, inspection themes Aftercare — included; calm decompression, grounding, check-in plan

This is where my Owner / Trainer / Protocol Master energy naturally sits.

Common requests I’m happy to provide:

Ownership-coded scenes (consensual possession, rules, collar ritual as symbol) Protocol heavy play (silence, posture, inspection, “permission to speak/touch”) Brat handling (structured correction, consequences, reward systems) Restraint + impact combinations (pacing, build, control) Confidence-breaking / confidence-building humiliation (negotiated tone + words) Service training (ritualised acts of service non-sexual; etiquette, obedience tasks)

I welcome male clients for non-sexual submission and discipline work. Because I’m straight, I keep the container strictly professional and non-sexual.

Common requests I’m happy to provide:

Protocol, discipline, and correction (firm authority, rules, consequences) Restraints + positioning (control without sexual contact) Impact play (spanking/strap/paddle/flogger to negotiated intensity) Humiliation & psychological dominance (verbal control, inspection, tasks) Service submission (non-sexual service tasks, etiquette, obedience drills) Chastity themes as a psychological dynamic (control/denial as concept; see boundaries below)

To keep things clean and aligned with my sexuality and practice:

No intercourse / oral services (non-sexual BDSM only) Touch is negotiated (I lead; contact is purposeful, not romantic) Male clients: sessions are non-sexual and professional by default Safewords + negotiation always No intoxicated sessions

Owner Energy • Trainer • Protocol Master • Ethical Sadist • Consent-Led • Non-Sexual BDSM • All Genders Welcome

 

If you want this to read exactly like Martine’s “Standard Sessions / Add-Ons” blocks, here’s the same content in that style (copy/paste-ready):

PSE • Protocol • Training • Bondage • Restraints • Impact (negotiated) • Sensation • Consensual Degradation (negotiated language) • Roleplay (non-sexual) • Aftercare

High-protocol scenes • Multi-session training plan • Couples dynamics (negotiated) • Travel (quoted) • Group scenarios (quoted; strict screening)

Non-sexual, professional container • Protocol/discipline/impact/restraints/humiliation available • Genital play (choose: not offered / negotiable)

Telegram: @Siraffection Email: [email protected] SMS: 0414 124 535

Discretion is standard. Consent is mandatory. Structure is the point.

— Sir

 

Rates

1 hr : incall $100 - outcall $150

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